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I became involved with the local anarchist community over a year ago, and though they've mostly all parted ways I'm still left with the imprint of being surrounded by so many white boys. There were a few other girls, and the guys were people I think I'd be inclined to like if there weren't SO MANY of them. I know a few intimately, but I always ended up biting my tongue when we were discissing strategy for Food Not Bombs, or assuming that they knew better because they were older and more self-assured. I've read analyses where it's been shown that women speak significantly less in a forum-type atmosphere with men around. I felt like it was a competition for intellegence, and I'm sure it did not feel that way to them- I'm sure they were just sharing their perceptions, but I have to wonder WHY I felt that way to begin with.

Has anyone else experienced this or tried to be the initiator of opening up discussion about it?

I just feel so much more at ease expressing my opinions around women. I just...fear that the men will point out the weak points of my arguments. I'd love to feel confident in my voice.

Thanks.